A couple of days ago I was jarred by a remark made by an acquaintance — let’s call her Mary –a woman whose work for the animals and for the planet I respect deeply. It was at the end of the annual Fur Free Friday protest in Beverly Hills. A group of us had planned on getting lunch at Veggie Grill in West Hollywood and I, sans car, begged a ride from her. I looked forward to continuing a conversation begun the day before, at the Vegan Thanksgiving potluck in Rancho Park, regarding effective activism and the need to get the larger, “Mom and Pop” public involved in animal rights causes.
As we walked to her car I mentioned how I have been forced, much of the time, to take public transportation and I mentioned how I loved taking the train, the Metro Expo La Brea station just a ten minute walk from where I live. Mary responded that she loathed taking the train or any form of public transport. And why is that? I asked. “Because of all those gross people.” she replied.
I wasn’t quite sure which people she was talking about. To be sure, I have encountered some less than appealing humanoids in all my years riding buses and taking trains. Was she talking about someone like the homeless guy I encountered once on a subway train in New York whose rotten cabbage/cat piss reek practically cleared a whole car? Or the woman chugging malt liquor from the can at 7:45 in the morning on the 212 bus headed into Hollywood?
No. Mary was not talking about certain people. She was talking about all people — or at least the majority of people who still “stuff themselves with the bodies of dead animals” (or words to that effect.) In fact, she went on, she hated the human race. If a virus were to wipe out the entire human population, she averred, she would be fine with that. Now, I have heard this sentiment expressed before and have found it not only disturbing but asinine, as I shall explain below. But I did not, perhaps naively, expect to hear it from this woman.
“Name one good thing that human beings have done on this earth!” she demanded.
“What about all of us?” I asked, “What about all of the people who care deeply about animals and the Earth and are working to bring about change?” She replied that we were but a minority and besides, it was already too late. We’d already reached the tipping point. Humans had fucked things up forever. Another person who was walking with us to the car, an older woman I didn’t know, readily agreed that all people were detestable and she hated them, too.
“Do you hate yourself, then?” I asked Mary. She replied that she had no problem with dying –and that she would be perfectly fine with having her whole family perish as well –but whilst she was alive she planned to keep fighting for the animals. I turned to–or perhaps on (my ire was up)– the other woman and posed the same question: “Since you are a human, do you hate yourself?”
“Oh, I, too, do not care if I die,” she replied in a European accent I was unable to identify.
“That’s not the question that I asked,” I told her, trying hard to keep a prosecutorial zeal from gaining control. “Do you hate yourself??”
She conceded that, well, no, she did not hate herself.
“So you just hate everyone else, then. Is that it?” We had reached the car by this point and I got in and shut up. On the drive to Veggie Grill I remained silent until Mary wanted to continue our conversation from Thanksgiving. I took this opportunity to confront her with her anti-human stance but she merely reiterated her desire to see a virus wipe out the entire human race. There was no human being, “not even the Dalai Lama” whose life was worth a damn compared to the life of an animal.
“And what about all the children?” I asked, barely able to contain my repugnance for what this woman professed to believe. “All the young children I teach. Do you want to see them perish as well?”
To which she replied, “Yes, them too. Children grow up to become vivisectors.”
Once we reached Veggie Grill, I had lost my appetite. As the two human haters waited for another human to find parking, I took the elevator up to the ground level and then walked out to to Crescent Heights and continued walking, down towards Santa Monica Boulevard. Away from human haters. Away from the activist crowd gathered at Veggie Grill, a crowd comprised of who knows how many others who fervently wished for a final viral solution to the human problem.
Of course, I do realize that there are many– perhaps most– in my Vegan/Animal Rights community and in the worldwide circle of advocates,who eschew such misanthropy. Here’s what Animal Rights philosopher Tom Regan has to say in his book, Empty Cages:
With rare exceptions, ARAs [animal rights advocates] stand for love of family and country, for human rights and justice, for human freedom and equality, for compassion and mercy, for peace and tolerance, for special concern for those with special needs, for a clean, sustainable environment, for the rights of our children’s children’s children — our future generations.
I question whether most ARAs “stand for love of family and country” and it’s Hallmark- patriotic sheen but I would like to believe the rest is quite true.
Yes, human beings are capable of great cruelty, staggering mindlessness, monumental stupidity, selfishness, greed and folly. Many people have annoyed me, repulsed me, horrified and deeply saddened me. But there have also been people who have greatly inspired me, who have bolstered my faith in humanity, whose self-sacrifice and dedication are a wonder to behold, whose kindness and compassion have at times brought me to tears. And I have known humans who, though not (yet) vegan, not animal rights advocates, have touched me deeply with their warmth, humor and sensitivity.
I understand the anger, the sickness-at-heart; I understand the rage. There is much that humans have done to animals and to Nature (and, I might add, to other humans) that is unconscionable and deserving of unequivocal rebuke.
But it makes me sick at heart to hear people like Mary declare such hatred for a species to which I, my family, friends and loved ones — and yes, even she–happen to belong. And all this talk about looking forward to a virus wiping out the human race is such asinine rubbish. Of course those like Mary are not prepared to start things off with themselves and not wait for the virus (thank goodness!) because of the important work they have left to do. But it is fine to consign everyone else to death. Even little children who will, undoubtedly, grow up to become vivisectors. And what of the suffering involved? The anguish of those who, before their own demise, have to witness their loved ones sicken and waste away. What of the pain, the terror, the horror of such a scenario? Would this, in Mary’s mind, be justice served? Or is she planning on a quick and painless plague?
I am a human being, a deeply flawed human being. We are all flawed to some extent. Yes, even the beloved leaders of our Vegan/Animal Rights community (I have been privy to some stories which paint a less than glowing portrait of the human interactions of some highly respected people ) But this does not mean they have not made positive contributions to saving the lives of animals and to changing the hearts and minds of other human beings. And this does not mean that there are so many others out there who are open to our message of compassion for all earthlings, who are ready to change, to become Vegan, to put their ideals into profound practice.
We cannot, we must not, conform to the false stereotype of the “people hating” animal rights extremist. This does not mean that we must not confront the public with the truth — the horrors of factory farming, the insanity and barbarity of animal research, the depravity of the fur trade, etc. It means that we must be guided by hope, we must be always ready to take the long view, to see an arc of history that truly does bend toward justice.
And we must be open to the small epiphanies, the serendipitous discoveries that are awaiting us as long as we leave ourselves open to them. Last night, after taking part in a rousing street theater stunt against UCLA vivisection organized by Progress For Science at Santa Monica’s Third Street Promenade, I had time to kill before my bus arrived and so I stopped in at the bar at Buddha’s Belly on Broadway and Second for an après (street) theater drink.
I had much to think about, much to contemplate regarding the events of the past few days. I had been a part of a peaceful and lovely gathering of like minded folk in Rancho Park for the Vegan Thanksgiving potluck; I had been in the midst of some righteous anger directed at the purveyors of fur in Beverly Hills; I was happy that the stunt on the promenade had gone well and that nearly thirty people had shown up. I had felt a comradeship with these people, these dedicated activists,many of whom were young enough to be my children.
And I also was mulling over Mary’s comments. As I sipped my Tsing Tao beer, to be followed by a sake, I scanned the others at the bar and in the dining area. Would Mary find everyone of them gross and consignable to death? And would I feel a true sense of kinship with any of them? Did any of them really care about earthlings other than themselves?
We cannot, we must not, conform to the false stereotype of the “people hating” animal rights extremist.
And there I was, dressed up in my grown-up clothes, my non-wool dress jacket, dress shirt, slacks, non-leather shoes (I had been to the real theater earlier in the day). How did the others see me? Would they see a much different person were I wearing the “Animal Liberation” tee shirt I wore to the fur protest? Most likely, yes. Dressed as I was, they had no way of knowing I was a Vegan, an Animal Rights Advocate, the creator of The Veg Monologues, fer cryin’ out loud.
And then the bartender, a friendly young woman named Jamie, spoke to me. “Did you just come from a movie or show?” she asked. And I told her that, no, actually, I had just come from a street theater stunt against vivisection at UCLA. And that’s how I found out that she and her mother were both Vegan and supporters of animal rights. As she went about her bar tending duties we talked about veganism, tofurkey, Native Foods, and how difficult it is sometimes being around people who just don’t get it. Before I left, I urged her to check out this blog.
So, Jamie, if you are reading this, it was great meeting you, fellow Vegan. Fellow Human.
Beautifully written, as always. I think all we can do is send love to those who need it.
Thank you, Paulina. There are so many ways of expressing love and caring. And there are so many ways of expressing our love for non-human animals without hatred for human animals. The expression of love and compassion that you bring to your music is one such beautiful way.
I appreciate your thoughtful, heart centered posting. I often struggle with being hopeful that humans can learn to live non-violently and harmoniously. I find it helps to keep the perspective that humans are animals living out our nature. Humans are also capable of tremendous love and compassion. Unquestionably, humans often do horrific things. I endeavor to and encourage others to judge actions and refrain from judging people as wrong or deserving of punishment. I believe that judging people does not serve, makes it less likely that our message will be heard, and ultimately contributes to violence. Thank you for your post Robb.
Thank you, Dave. Yes, sometimes being hopeful is a struggle and truth be told, I am not consistently hopefully in my own life but knowing that there are compassionate humans such as yourself and many, many more keeps me from despondency. And you are absolutely right, we humans ARE animals ourselves, living out our own unique nature and we ARE capable of kindness, non-violence and great beauty. And we are capable of making a choice to live consciously and without cruelty. We Vegans have made that choice and we need to encourage, by example and by action, others to do so as well.
My goodness, Robb, this was fantastic! I’m jealous this isn’t on my blog!
I wish I could have been there with you. You know I would have spoken up (probably not quite as kindly as you). Although I can see their side, I must take your side in the end. Humans have a gigantic capacity for inflicting pain and suffering, ridicule, humiliation, degradation, destruction — but the pendulum swings both ways — we also have a gigantic capacity for love, tenderness, compassion. We can damn the world to hell if we so chose, but we can also make the world immortal.
This goes back to even biblical texts, which as you know, I am not the slightest bit religious, but even in the Christian bible it states something about humans are here to govern the world. I don’t interpret this as giving us free reign to rape, plunder and defile this planet and all its inhabitants. I interpret this as giving us permission to improve, care for and love the earth. Just as there are examples of the worst kind of “humans” (murderers, rapists, vivisectors), there are also examples of the best kind of humans (animal rights activists). We shouldn’t throw the baby out with the bathwater — even if that bathwater has been VERY dirty for a VERY long time.
For your friend Mary, I would direct her to my blog post about not fighting fire with fire — not allowing ourselves to stoop to their level. A post called “Pot vs. Kettle”, located here:
Robb, this post and that video below it are excellent! YOU and people like you are the reason I will NEVER lose hope.
If we lose hope, WE LOSE.
Hey Kiddo, I can always count on you for a cogent and inspiring reply. And yes, folks, Ms. Vegan Rabbit’s blog is definitely worth checking out! BTW I’m glad you did see the video. I posted it on your FB page and got no response. Anyway, as I’ve said before, your praise and support mean the world to me.
I tried to watch it but I can’t play flash (macbook — womp womp). For some reason I was magically able to watch it here on your blog though! Yippee!!! How I wish everyone could see it!